I am very angry. I have a right to be. I had someone tell me (a friend) to "be objective" about a person who not only slandered my name this summer, but also wrote quite a few cruel and creatively false things about me on the internet instead of to my face. I do expect decency from people, and I highly doubt a little bit of sensitivity and loyalty is that much to ask from people who call themselves friend. In the "objective" point of view, I did confront this girl this summer once when she complained about the number of trash bags left over from her friends that weekend. After that, I rarely/never spoke to her and even outright avoided her (which, coincidentally, was also the late-arriving advice of my non-commital and "un-involved" friend). People are so frustrating.